曾经,两个15岁的孩子来找到我,他俩谈恋爱已经两年多,常常一起看电影,一起到图书馆看书,一起做作业。他俩的父母都知道他们在谈恋爱,但父母不知道该如何与他们交流这个话题;他们非常希望父母能够与他们主动交流,告诉他们该做什么不该做什么,然而,他们不知道该怎样与父母提及这个话题。在和我进行了一些交流之后,他们直接问:“胡老师,我们想知道我们在谈恋爱的时候,交往的底线是什么?”我回答:“底线是不可以发生性行为。” Once, two 15-year-old children to find me, they have been in love for more than two years, often watching movies together to read a book in the library, homework. Both of their parents knew they were falling in love, but their parents did not know how to talk to them; they really wanted their parents to talk to them and tell them what to do and what they did not know, however. Mentioned this topic with their parents. After some exchanges with me, they asked directly: “Teacher Hu, we want to know when we fall in love, what is the bottom line of communication? ” I replied: “The bottom line is no sexual activity. ”