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中年人的婚姻生活,早已从卿卿我我的浪漫中解脱出来,变得实实在在的了。现代中年人的婚姻生活,已成两极分化:一种是把恋爱、初婚及年轻时期的狂热情感冶炼浓缩为富有深刻内涵的稳固爱情,夫妻对此种生活感到越来越有滋味;另一种是年轻时期的狂热情感逐渐冷却湮灭,共同的生活使各自的缺点暴露无遗,一方对此无正确认识,另一方也没有作必要的修正,婚姻生活犹如洪峰过后泛起的浮渣与浑沌,显不出多少生机。日常生活中,这种情况较前者更为多见。 美国社会家庭学家K·D·牛顿,在《让中年充
The marriage of middle-aged people has long since been freed from the romance of my heart and soul and has become real. Modern middle-aged married life, has become polarized: one is love, marriage and young age smelting passionate enrichment enrichment profound meaning of solid love, the couple feel more and more taste of this life; the other This kind of enthusiasm is gradually cooling and annihilation in the young age. The common life exposes their own shortcomings. There is no correct understanding on the part of the other party and the necessary amendments are not made by the other party. The scum and chaos in the marriage life are like floods , Showing how much vitality. In everyday life, this situation is more common than the former. American socialist DT Newton, in “Letting middle-aged charge.”