常有这种现象:甲对乙说,我告诉你一个秘密,你绝不可对人说。乙答应了。过了几天,乙憋不住了,便告诉丙,并要丙发誓守住秘密。几天后,丙像乙一样用同样的话对丁讲。结果秘密成了“公报”,当事人还蒙在鼓里。 为什么越是秘密的事情越是难守住?这里有几种原因: 1.炫耀心理 人都有这样的特点,知道的秘密越 Often this phenomenon: A pair of B, I tell you a secret, you must not say to people. B promised. A few days later, B could not hold it back and told C, and C swears to keep the secret. A few days later, C would speak to Ding in the same way as B. As a result, the secret became the “communiqué,” and the parties were kept in the dark. Why the more secretive things the more difficult to hold? There are several reasons: 1. To show off the psychological people have such characteristics, know the secret