【1】那天,接近中午的阳光炽烈,父亲坐在小区的楼前晒太阳,我经过父亲身边时就说:“爸,你不嫌热啊。”算是打个招呼,没想到他就拄着拐棍当着众多大爷大妈和过往的年轻人的面把我“训斥”了一顿。只有我能听得懂他那声高气壮的话语,意思是不要我管,让我该干什么干什么。最近我经历的这些事情越来越多,不知道什么时候会触犯他,不知什么事会激怒他,而他的表现过分得 [1] That day, close to noon, the sun was blazing, my father sitting in front of the district building basking in the sun, I passed by my father, said: “Dad, you are not too hot ah.” Be greeted, did not think he Leaning on her stick in front of many aunt and past young people face me “reprimanded ” a meal. Only I can understand his soothing words, which means I do not control what I should do. Recently, I have experienced more and more of these things. I do not know when I will violate him. I do not know what will irritate him and he has over-represented