现在提倡赏识教育,不少人认为好孩子是“夸”出来的,表扬鼓励是一味灵丹妙药,对任何孩子都适用。我认为这种提法至少是偏面的、不完备的。人生一世,要面对的绝对不是坦途,对于大多数人来说,成败得失,顺境逆境总是相伴左右、形影相随的。“赏识”“激励”对培养孩子的自尊自信固然有效,但从另一方面看,让孩子从小经受一定的 Now promote appreciation education, many people think that good boy is “boast” out, in recognition of encouragement is a blind panacea, for any child are applicable. I think this formulation is at least partial and incomplete. For the sake of most people, the success or failure of a person’s life and the adversity of going there will always be accompanied by the shadow and the shadow. “Appreciation” “motivation” to develop self-esteem of children is valid, but on the other hand, let the children withstand a certain amount of