我住的小城不大,每天散步,一个小时的时间能沿着一条小河边从城南走到城北。在路上,遇到一个一年前认识的人,记得是一次小聚,这人在座,颇帅气的一个人,喝酒、聊天。之后,对这个人的印象不深,早就忘了当时介绍的姓名、单位、职务。此时,迎面走来,对方伸手相握,我自然也满脸笑意,几句寒暄,问问近况都好,然后背对而走,却不敢回头再问:“您贵姓?”一时想不出这人是谁,非常努力地去想,记忆里仍是一片空白。估计,对方对我的印象也是如此吧。人活了几十年,工作、学习、社交,算是阅人无数,而真正印象深刻的人,终究是寥寥无几,因缘际会,能偶尔认识并成为朋友的人,更是屈指可数。更多的人,可能彼此火热一阵子,然后渐行渐远,慢慢成了泛泛之交的也不在少数。想想,见过的人,也如读过的书。见过的人,从生活里经过,各自为自己的生计忙碌。而读过的书,大多数不 I live in a small town, take a walk every day, an hour can walk along a small river from the south to the north. On the road, meet a person who met a year ago, I remember a small gathering, this person is sitting, quite a handsome man, drinking, chatting. After the impression of this person is not deep, long ago forgot to introduce the name, unit, job. At this point, the face came, the other hand, I naturally smile, a few greetings, ask the current situation are good, and then back to go, but did not dare to ask: “your name? ” Can not think of this person for a moment, very hard to think, the memory is still a blank. It is estimated that the other side of my impression is also true. People who have lived, worked, studied and socialized for decades, are countless people who are really impressive. After all, few are people who are occasionally acquainted with each other and become friends because they are few and far between. More people may fiery each other for a while, and then lopsided, has become a veritable acquiescence is also a minority. Think of those who have seen, but also read the book. People who have seen, through life, each busy for their own livelihood. And read the book, most do not