我那年仅15岁的儿子在待人处事上已经很“成熟”,“成熟”得胜过我这个父亲。 有一次,一位同学向我儿子借《少儿百科全书》,他回说被别人借去了,而接着班主任的儿子问他借,他却毫不犹豫地借给了他。我当时问儿子这是为何?儿子毫不掩饰地说:借给一般的同学没有什么作用,而借给班主任的儿子对自己则很有帮助。妻夸儿子聪明,说就应该这样处事。我却有一种可怕的感受。 My 15-year-old son was already “mature” in dealing with others and “mature” won over my father. Once, a classmate borrowed the Encyclopedia of Children from my son. He replied that he was borrowed by others, and then the class teacher’s son asked him to borrow and he did not hesitate to lend him. When I asked my son what was it? My son said without any disguise: It is of no use to lend to ordinary classmates and the son who lent to the class teacher is very helpful to himself. Wife boast son smart, that should be done. I have a terrible feeling.