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三岁看老,这句俗话与精神分析理论甚为一致。精神分析理论这样解释人的成长:现在是过去的重现,比如许多人长大以后,仍然在重复着幼时的反应模式,内容变了,环境变了,但反应的模式没有变。因为早期经历会决定这个人的思维和行动总是按一种固定的方法处理。像同样遭遇了失恋,有人很快调整过来,有人却产生心理问题。这是由于他们早年生活经历和经验不同而形成了应对挫折的不同模式,所以会有不同的结果。如果父母明白,孩子早年的成长环境、父母性格和教养方式等将在很大程度上决定孩子将来的主要性格,就可以为孩子一生的成就和幸福奠定基础。为此,本刊为您讲述一位剑桥大学在读研究生的早年生活经历如何影响他的健康成长。
Three years old to see the old, this saying is very consistent with the psychoanalytic theory. Psychoanalytic theory explains human growth in such a way that it is now a recurrence of the past. For example, after many people grow up, they still repeat the response patterns of childhood. The content has changed, the environment has changed, but the mode of response has not changed. Because early experiences determine that this person’s thinking and acting are always handled in a fixed way. Like the same suffered a romance, some people quickly adjusted, some people have psychological problems. This is due to their different life experiences and experiences in their early years which have led to different modes of dealing with setbacks, so there will be different results. If parents understand that their early years ’growth environment, their parents’ personality, their mode of parenting and so on will largely determine the future main character of their children, they can lay the foundation for the achievements and happiness of their children’s life. To this end, we tell you about how a Cambridge University graduate student’s early life experience affects his healthy growth.