我们很多家长,对自己的孩子“情有独钟”,往往抱有许多不切实际的美丽幻想,希望他或她将来成为“人中之龙”或“人中之凤”,像诺贝尔那样伟大的科学家;像曹雪芹那样流芳百世的文学家;还要像比尔·盖茨那样成为世界级亿万富翁;或者像克林顿成为一国之总统或元首……集事业、金钱 Many of our parents, who are “fond of children”, often have many unrealistic and beautiful fantasies, hoping that he or she will become the “dragon of man” or “the man of the people” in the future. Like Nobel A great scientist; a well-known writer like Cao Xueqin; a world-class billionaire like Bill Gates; or a president or a head of a nation like Clinton ... a business, money