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有限的时间和精力 对任何人采说最大的挑战都是时间和精力有限,而现实世界中有众多事情需要我们关注,导致我们很容易分心。 首先也是最重要的,师生关系需要你对自己的专业发展有所承诺。日常的紧急事件很容易使你的专业友展降到从属地位,使你没有时间来发展你自己,但用于自我发展的投资是在很久以后才能得到回报的,而注意力集中于日常事物又会使你限于短期思考。斯蒂芬·卡威和他的助手在他们的书《重要的事情先办》中把事情划分为紧急但不重要的任务和重要但不紧急的任务。你经常要在重要的需要优先办理的事情上花费时间,至于你自身的发展,可能没有其他事情那么紧急。然而,在这件事上下功夫才是你应该做的。 除了承诺花时间和你的导师一起工作外,你还需要适当的时间投入。对你来说投入多少时间是现实的?在师生关系建立的初期,你要和你的导师讨论你打算投入多少时间、你有哪些限制。一定要交流这些信息,这有助于你的导师建立对你的期望值。
Limited Time and Energy The biggest challenge anyone can take is limited time and energy while there are many things in the real world that require our attention and which make us easily distracted. First and foremost, teacher-student relationship requires your commitment to your professional development. Routine emergencies can easily subordinate your professional friendships to subordinates, leaving you without time to grow yourselves, but investing in self-development is rewarded long after, and attention is focused on everyday things Will limit you to short-term thinking. Stephen Calvi and his aides classify things as urgent but not important tasks and important but not urgent tasks in their book, “Things Matter To Do.” You often have to spend time on important things that need to be prioritized, and your own development may not be as urgent as anything else. However, it is something that you should do in this matter. In addition to promising to spend your time with your mentor, you also need to devote the right amount of time. In the early days of teacher-student relationship, discuss with your tutor about how much time you plan to spend and what limits you have. Be sure to communicate this information, which will help your mentor establish expectations of you.