我国现代著名教育家陈鹤琴先生说过:“父母,不是容易做的,一般人以为结了婚,生了孩子,就有做父母的资格了,其实不然。我们知道,栽花的人,先要懂得栽花的方法,花才栽得好;养蜂的人,先要懂得养蜂的方法,蜂才养得好;……难道养小孩,不懂得方法,可以养好吗?”英国著名教育家斯宾塞认为:生儿育女,只是青年人生理成熟的标志;能够教养子女,才 Mr. Chen Heqin, a famous modern educator in our country, said: “Parents are not easy to do. Most people think that when they have their children, they have parents’ qualifications. Actually, we know that people who planted flowers must first understand The method of planting flowers, flowers planted well; beekeeping people, we must first know how to beekeeping, bee was well-fed; ... ... do not raise children, do not know the method, you can raise it? ”The famous British educator Spencer said: having children is just a sign of physical maturity of young people;