来访者的话“怎么还要到你的诊室去呀?要不我们找个茶馆坐坐,或者到哪家餐厅一起吃个便饭,顺便就把事情给谈了。”“医生呀,您不知道,我说服不了孩子到这里来做咨询。我想请您上门服务,到我家去跟孩子聊聊,车接车送不是问题,费用您只管提。”“咱们是经朋友介绍认识的,从此咱们也就是朋友了。往后您有什么需要就说一声,人与人之间不都得相互照应吗?”现实社会中,人们是讲究亲情和关系的,关系学的运用似乎是中国文化的一部分。心理咨询师会经常听到诸如上面提到的各种盛情邀请,感受来访者或家 Visitor’s words “How to go to your clinic? Or we find a tea house to sit, or to which restaurant to eat a meal, by the way to put things to talk. ” “Doctor, you I do not know, I can not convince the children to do consulting here, I would like to invite you to come to my home, to talk to their children, car pick up is not a problem, the cost you just mention. ”“ We are introduced by friends And from now on we are also friends.What do you need to say in the future, do not all of us have to take care of each other? ”In the real world, people pay attention to affection and relationship. It is part of Chinese culture. Psychological Counselors often hear invitations such as those mentioned above, to feel like visitors or home