前些天 ,有个嫁给美国人的朋友对我发牢骚 ,说她先生一定让她改用夫姓 ,弄得她心里别扭了很久。搁过去 ,我说不定一听就要跳脚了 ,没准还要写篇“死不改姓”之类的牢骚话 ,借着替她出气 ,来发泄自己之不满。不过 ,现在我觉得自己不该乱跳了。尤其这类事 ,我不打算插嘴 ,一是因? A few days ago, a friend who had married to the United States complained to me saying that she must have let her switch to her husband’s name, leaving her uncomfortable for a long time. Put in the past, I may have to jump on the first hearing, may have to write an article, “Do not change my surname,” the kind of resentment, by venting her to vent their dissatisfaction. However, I feel I should not jump now. In particular, this kind of thing, I do not intend to interrupt, one because of?