江苏李女士问: 我跟先生在教养孩子的问题上,经常因为达不成共识而吵架。比如,我是个比较情绪化的妈妈,每次只要女儿不听话,我就会控制不住自己的脾气而把她数落一通。其实,每当这时,我都希望先生能比较理智地安慰孩子,缓和紧张的气氛。谁知,他恰好相反,每次都是过来帮我一道责怪女儿。另外,我认为父母两人应该是一人扮黑脸时,另一人就扮白脸,可先 Jiangsu Ms. Li asked: My husband and I talked about raising children, and we often quarrel because we can not reach a consensus. For example, I am a more emotional mom, whenever my daughter is not obedient, I will not control my temper and bring her up and down. In fact, whenever I do this, I hope my husband will be able to comfort her child more reasonably and ease the tension. Who knows, he is the opposite, every time come help me to blame my daughter. In addition, I think the two parents should be one person play a black face, the other play a white face, first