准备生二宝之前,我补充叶酸和各种营养,定期进行体检,想至少先用三个月的准备期调整好身体,再受孕。那时的大宝7岁,一直渴望有一个弟弟(妹妹)。我们都认为他做好哥哥是顺理成章的事情。然而事实并非如此。我让孩子知道:抚养二宝的责任仍然在大人身上。他不用提前成为小大人,更不用为这个孩子牺牲自己的东西。在我准备怀孕期间,大宝的期末考试成绩直线下 Prior to preparing biotech, I added folic acid and a variety of nutrients, regular physical examination, at least first three months of preparation to adjust the body, and then conceive. At that time, the great treasure 7 years old, has been longing for a brother (sister). We all think he is a matter of course. However, it is not. I let the children know: the responsibility of raising two treasure is still adults. He does not have to become a young man in advance, let alone sacrifice his own things for this child. During my preparation for pregnancy, Dabao’s final exam scores went straight