在尽孝这件事上,符合辩证关系原理:儿子是内因,媳妇是外因,内因是根本,外因通过内因起作用。在弟弟的婚姻大事上,我觉得母亲很矛盾,一方面她盼着弟弟早日结婚好抱孙子,另一方面她又常说“娶个媳妇卖个儿”。前两天听到一首顺口溜:儿住瓦房孙住楼,老头老婆住村头儿;儿子烧煤孙烧气儿,老头老婆柴火棍儿;儿子压水孙抽水,老头老婆得抬水……声声透着凄凉,我终于理解了母亲——她是担忧弟弟结婚后她和 In filial piety this matter, in line with the dialectical principle: the son is the internal cause, the wife is the external cause, the internal cause is the fundamental external factor through the internal function. In my brother’s marriage event, I think the mother is very contradictory. On the one hand, she expects her younger brother to get married as early as grandson. On the other hand, she often says “marry a wife to sell a child.” Two days ago heard a jingle: children live in tile floor Sun House, the old man and wife living in the village head son; son burning coal Sun children, the old man wife firewood stick son; son water Shunshui pumping, the old man had to carry water ... ... Voice bleak bleak, I finally understand the mother - she is worried about her brother and married after her brother