编辑同志: 您好! 我是一位机关工作人员,几个月前因工作需要调入一个新的科室。组长是一位比我小两岁的男士,原先接触不多关系还算可以,然后因同在一办公室接触多了我们的关系便别扭起来。他跟我说话的语调虽算不上居高临下的样子,但语气明显缺少了以前的柔和,使我心里很不舒服。最使我苦恼的是,我与他的性格竞格格不入。我比较欣赏那种谦虚、稳重、含蓄的男士,而他恰恰相反, Editor’s Comrade: Hello! I am a staff member, a few months ago due to work needs transferred to a new department. The leader was a man two years younger than I was. It would have been okay to get in touch with a little old one, and then I would not be twisted by having more contact with an office. His tone of speaking with me though not arrogant, but the tone obviously lacked the previous soft, I feel very uncomfortable. What bothers me most is that I am incompatible with his character. I appreciate the kind of modest, steady, subtle men, and on the contrary, he,