清代书画家陈鸿寿有一副手书联:“课子课孙先课己,成仙成佛且成人。”语言精练,富有哲理。这里的“课”字可解做“教育”。上联的意思是,要教育好子孙后代,必须先教育好自己。“课己”要表里如一,说到做到。凡是要求孩子去做的,自己首先要实行。要求孩子勤快,父母就不能懒散;要求孩子孝敬长辈,父母自己要率先敬老;要求孩子文明礼貌,做父母的决不能沉醉在麻将声中。如果 Chen Hongshou painter and calligrapher Chen Hongshou has a handwritten couplet: “The class begins with lessons of Sun himself, becomes immortal and becomes an adult.” The language is concise and philosophical. The word “lesson” here can be interpreted as “education.” The meaning of the association is that to educate future generations, we must first educate ourselves. “Class” must be coherent, when it comes to. All children are required to do, they must first be implemented. Requirements of children diligent, parents can not be lazy; require elders to honor their children, parents must take the lead in respecting the elderly; children polite, parents must not indulge in the mahjong. in case