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如何建立人际关系?“行动”是秘诀;改善自己性格,引发他人对你的好感,则是要点,而两者皆以具备“同理心”为前提。相逢即是有缘,俗语说,第一次见面的朋友是银子的朋友,见面两次以上的朋友即是金子的朋友,但有许多人却见面不相识,错失建立人脉大好机会。根据心理学家研宄,人与人之间有四种人际心理地位,分别为:我好、我不好、你好和你不好。如以十字划分四个象限,“我好&你好”属于利己利人的人际状况,“我好&你不好”、“我不好&你好”和“我不好&你不好”都是一种损己损人的人际关系。
How to build relationships? “Action ” is the secret; to improve their own personality, triggering feelings of others for you, it is the point, and both with “empathy ” as the premise. Meet is the affinity, the saying goes, the first friend to meet is a silver friend, met more than two friends that is gold friends, but many people met but do not know, missed the opportunity to establish contacts. According to psychologists research, there are four kinds of interpersonal psychological status between people, namely: I am good, I am not good, hello and you are not good. If we divide the four quadrants with a cross, “I am good & hello” belong to the social status of selfish, “I am good & you are not good”, “I am not good & hello” and “I Not good & you are not good ”is a loss of human relations.