孩子成长过程中,免不了犯错。作为家长不要忙着焦虑,问孩子几个问题,事情能轻松解决。第一个问题是:“发生什么事情了?”许多成人碰到突发状况时,会习惯性下判断:“一定是你先打他,他才会打你。”“一定是你做错事,老师才会处罚你。”如果我们不让孩子从他的角度说说事情的经过,很可能冤枉孩子。况且,让孩子有机会说话,即使真是他的错,他也会因为有 Children grow up, inevitably make mistakes. As parents do not be anxious, ask the child a few questions, things can be easily resolved. The first question is: “What happened? ” Many adults encounter unexpected situations, the judge will be habitual: “You must hit him first, he will hit you. ” “Certain If you do something wrong, the teacher will punish you. ”" If we do not allow children to talk about things from his point of view, they probably wronged their children. Moreover, let the child have a chance to speak, even if it is his fault, he would because of it