上世纪七十年代末期,鄙人供职于京城一家单位。当时参加一个会议,在等待英明领袖接见的当儿,农村老家父亲病危的电报雪片般飞来。请假探家?不敢说且说了也不会批。无奈,最终也未能见老父一面。后来调回古城,由乡下接来老妈同住。一晃十多年,忽地老妈病逝,才幡然悔悟:老人健在时, The late seventies of last century, I work in the capital of a unit. At a time when attending a meeting, waiting for the wise leaders to meet, the telegram of the fatal hometown father flew in flakes. Leave a probe? Can not say and say will not grant. Helpless, eventually failed to see the side of the father. Later, back to the ancient city, followed by the mother to live with the countryside. Flash for more than a decade, suddenly mother died, it Fanran repentance: the elderly healthy,