一、打断别人的话头或抢接别人的话头,扰乱人家的思路; 二、忽略了使用解释与概括的方法,使对方一时难以领会你的意图; 三、由于自己注意力的分散,迫使别人再次重复谈过的话题; 四、连珠炮似地发问,让人觉得你过分热心和要求过高,以至难以应付; 五、对待他人的提问漫不经心,言谈空洞,使人觉得你不愿意为对方的困难助一臂之力; 六、随便解释某种现象,轻率地 First, to interrupt someone’s head or grab the head of others, disturbing people’s ideas; Second, ignore the use of explanations and generalized approach, so that the other one moment difficult to understand your intentions; Third, due to their own distraction, forcing others Fourth, repeated questions, people think you are too enthusiastic and demanding too hard to cope with; Fifth, treat others questions careless, empty talk, people think you do not want to each other’s Difficult to help one hand; Sixth, casually explain some kind of phenomenon, recklessly