老伴儿是我的同乡、同学,甚至还是同桌,极有缘分,所以婚后夫妻感情甚笃。没想到人退休了,夫妻感情也跟着退步,主要原因是“离”多“聚”少。老伴儿退休后闲不住,到小区当了保安,常是夜里值班,白天补觉,无暇顾及我。而我则常去外地帮女儿带小孩,自然就疏远了老伴儿。两人缺乏沟通,难免 My wife and children are my fellow countrymen, classmates, and even the same table, very fate, so the feelings of married couples are very talented. Did not expect people to retire, the couple also followed the feelings of the regress, the main reason is “from ” “poly ” less. Restless wife after retirement, to the area as a security guard, often at night on duty, make up during the day, no time to take into account me. And I often go to the field to help her daughter with children, naturally, estranged his wife children. The two lack of communication, inevitably