一般来说,舆论所能允许男子公开表达的情感是有限的,那就是进取或攻击。竞争、冷酷、沉默,男子能控制自己的情绪并显得总是镇定自若。过了青春期后,他们还会表达性感情。而懦弱、羞怯、畏惧、脆弱、温柔、怜悯、追求感官刺激只能是女性的作为。若是男孩表现出这些特征就要遭到嘲笑,人们会认为他们“女里女气的”。一旦男子在公开场合哭泣、畏惧或悲切都会影响他们的尊严和社会形象,即使他们有这些感受也只好深深埋藏在心中,要注意暴露后带来的不良后果。所以男性好像不得不封闭 In general, emotions that public opinion can allow men to express publicly are limited, and that is aggressiveness or aggression. Competition, cruel, silent, men can control their emotions and always seem calm. After adolescence, they also express sexual affection. And cowardice, shyness, fear, fragility, tenderness, compassion, the pursuit of sensory stimulation can only be a feminine act. If boys show these traits, they are ridiculed, and people think they are “virginal.” Once men openly weep, fear or sadness will affect their dignity and social image. Even if they have these feelings, they have to deeply buried themselves and pay attention to the adverse consequences of exposure. So men seem to have to close