关于接纳,往往存在着一些误解,有必要正误。首先,接纳子女不是态度暧昧,娇宠孩子。如本文上期开头那个例子。父母如果能够站在女儿的角度思量(毕竟父母也年少过),至少不会做出“臭骂前来邀请女儿的同学”这样过于伤害女儿自尊心的行为来!父母须知:对于青春期的孩子,可以说,他们比任何人都更“看重”同龄朋友而“忽视”成年人。这是他们成长的需要,也是他们成长的标志。做父母的 On acceptance, there are often some misunderstandings, it is necessary correct. First of all, accepting children is not ambiguous, spoiling children. As in the beginning of this article last example. If parents can stand from the perspective of their daughters (after all, parents are younger than), at least not to make “swear to inviting daughters of students,” so too daughters self-esteem behavior! To parents: For adolescent children, you can say , Who “value” their peers and “neglect” adults more than anyone else. This is their need for growth, but also a sign of their growth. Parents