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本刊一直倡导,家庭教育的本质是家长与孩子相伴成长,而不是家长对孩子的单向管教。但有些家长不认同,他们觉得家长的思想观念已定型,人生轨迹已确定,不可能改变什么,更不可能被孩子改变。家长这样想,其实是拒绝进步。那么,孩子能不能改变家长呢?让我们来说说著名作家韩寒和他女儿韩小野的故事吧。韩寒年少成名,拥趸众多,媒体冠以“青年领袖”的头衔。他性格桀骜不驯,经常与人在媒体上打嘴仗,且笔锋犀利,口无遮拦,给人一种偏激、不成熟的印象。2010年6月,不满28岁的韩寒有了女儿韩小野。他爱女儿,爱的方式自然是韩式风格。他在公开场合说:“全世界我只想争取一个粉丝,就是我女儿,其他人崇拜不崇拜
This publication has always advocated that the essence of family education is that parents grow with their children, rather than one-way parental care of their children. However, some parents do not agree with them. They think that their parents’ ideas and concepts have already been finalized, that their life trajectory has been set, what can not be changed, and even less likely to be changed by their children. Parents think so, in fact, refused to progress. So, can children change parents? Let’s talk about the story of famous writer Han Han and his daughter Han Ono. Han Han less famous, many fans, the media champion ”“ young leader ”title. His character is unruly, often with people in the media, mouth warfare, and sharp, foolhardy, gives a radical, immature impression. In June 2010, less than 28-year-old Han Han had his daughter Han Ono. He loves his daughter, the way of love is of course Korean style. He said in public: "I just want to win a fan of the world is my daughter, others worship does not worship