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我们生活的世界不完美,有些人会让我们产生厌恶感。你可能想知道是否应该试着去喜欢见到的每一个人。下面是一些理智的人对待不喜欢的人的方式,你可以试一试。1.他们接受这个事实——他们不会喜欢所有的人有时候,我们会落入一个思维陷阱,认为我们自己是友善的人,我们要喜欢每一个跟自己打交道的人。这不现实,你不可避免地会遇到很难相处的人,你们在日常的相处过程中会产生矛盾。理智的人了解这一点,他们承认自己不会喜欢所有的人。2.他们尊重那些不喜欢的人,而不是忽略或赶走他们
The world we live in is not perfect, and some people make us sick. You may want to know if you should try to like everyone you like to see. Here’s how some sane people treat people they do not like, and you can give it a try. 1. They accept the fact that they do not like all of us. Sometimes, we fall into the trap of thinking that we ourselves are friendly and that we want to be like everybody who deals with ourselves. This is unrealistic, you inevitably encounter difficult to get along with people, you get along in the process of daily conflicts. Reasonable people know this, they admit that they do not like everyone. 2. They respect those who do not like, rather than ignore or drive them away