牛牛是个非常容易带的孩子,可是到了四岁的时候,他常常勃然大怒,一件小小的事情会让他又跳又叫,无理的要求也多起来,甚至蛮横不讲道理。父母为此非常烦恼。其实孩子到了一定的年龄,独立活动的能力增强,自主性有所发展,经常发脾气,对抗父母,是因为孩子有了自我意识,心理学上称“ Niu Niu is a very easy to bring the child, but by the age of four, he often tantrums, a small thing will make him jump and called, unreasonable demands more, even arrogant unreasonable. Parents are very worried about this. In fact, children reach a certain age, independent ability to enhance activities, the development of autonomy, often angry, against their parents, because children have self-awareness, psychology, said "