倔强是一个‘成功者’必须具备的素质之一,任性却能败坏事情甚至毁了人的一生,然而二者又有着密切的联系,可以互相包容、转化。如何区分它们呢?关键就在于苏霍姆林斯基所说的‘一个人愿望合理化’问题:任性是不分好歹为所欲为,倔强则是可以明辨是非的坚忍而勇为。我的孩子刚过两周岁生日,每次跌倒了总自己爬起来,极少哭过。有一次她和五岁的堂兄追着玩,在 Stubbornness is one of the qualities that a ’successful person’ must possess. Capriciousness can ruin things and even ruin a person’s life. However, the two are closely linked and can be mutually inclusive and transformed. How to distinguish them? The key lies in what Sukhomlinski called “the rationalization of one’s wishes.” The issue of self-willedness is whatever it takes. Stubbornness is the perseverance and courage to distinguish right from wrong. My child just passed two years old birthday, every time I fall, I always get up, rarely crying. Once she chased after her five-year-old cousin