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我们常常听到的一种说法是:沟通是一种能力。的确,从某种意义上说,沟通是一种技巧。因为它需要你有一定的口才,善于了解对方的表达,有说服人的能力等。但正因如此,沟通需要用心去做,因此它更是一门心灵的艺术。所以我以为,沟通首先是一种态度。成功的沟通无非两个要件:给予有用的信息,收集有用的信息。这就像我们的双手,一只手上,我们想要陈述我们的观点,清晰、公正、有说服力;另一只手上,我们需要倾听别人的想法,并设法与他们产生交流。有研究表明,一个正常人每天花60%-80%的时间在“听说读写”等沟通上。所以有人这样评论:人生的幸福就是人情的幸福,也是人缘的幸福。而人生的成功就是人际沟通的成功。
One of the things we often hear is that communication is a capability. Indeed, in a sense, communication is a skill. Because it requires you to have some eloquence, good at understanding each other’s expression, persuasive ability to wait. But because of this, communication needs to be done with heart, so it is more a spiritual art. So I thought, communication is above all an attitude. There are more than two elements of successful communication: giving useful information and collecting useful information. It’s like our hands and our hands. We want to state our point of view, clear, fair and convincing. On the other hand, we need to listen to others and try to communicate with them. Studies have shown that a normal person spends 60% -80% of his time on communication such as reading and writing. So some people commented: the happiness of life is the happiness of human, but also the popularity of happiness. The success of life is the success of interpersonal communication.