常听一些年轻父母诉说,自己的孩子胆小,不敢一个人熄灯睡觉,不敢接触小狗和小猫, 一些孩子还为此而遭到大人们的训斥。其实,孩子的这些表现,就是心理学所说的惧怕情绪反应在人的生活当中,惧怕反应并非完全表示懦怯,水火、车祸每人都须惧怕,惧怕应该惧怕的事物,正是一种自我安全防范;但对不该惧怕的事物,为之产生过份的恐惧,则往往会影响个性的正常发展,不利于身心健康。 Often, young parents tell that their children are timid, afraid to go to bed alone, afraid to touch dogs and kittens, and some children are reprimanded by adults for this purpose. In fact, these children’s performance, that is, psychology, said the fear of emotional reaction in people’s lives, fear of reaction is not fully expressed cowardice, water and fire, car accident everyone should be afraid, afraid of what should be afraid, it is a self Safety and security; but for those things that should not be afraid, too much fear is generated, which will often affect the normal development of personality and will not be conducive to physical and mental health.