打工的儿子儿子毅然辞去公职,离乡背井到遥远的南方打工去,这在我多少有些意外。这孩子大学读书期间一直被推为班长,毕业后又分配在父母居住的大都市的一个大单位,且很快成了这个单位的骨干和重点培养对象——从外部境遇看,并不存在多少“跳槽”的必要性和必然性。当时我未经犹豫便表示支持,仅仅是出于对他的信赖,同时我一直认为,优秀者之成为优秀,绝对是不能不几经人生道路的自我选择的,包括充满艰辛困顿之路。这并不意味着我是一个情感上的坚强者。当儿子岁末回家过春节,带回一批家用电器,突然间就有一阵悲怆袭上心头,挤压掉阔别重逢的欣喜——堆放在地上的那些十分精致的劳什子,一下子幻化成孩子的一泓血汗。我好容易才控制住眼中滚动的泪水。这完全可以从文学创作者惯于想象、易于感伤得到解释,但这“想象”并不是缺乏生活根据的,儿子手背上新添的那块大疤痕,就是那次夜工打到凌晨一时的当儿,被机器撕裂而留下的印记。当时没顾上去医务室缝 Son of working son decided to resign from public office, far away from home to the far south to work, which I am somewhat surprised. During her studies at the university, her child had been pushed as a squad leader during her studies. After graduation, she was assigned a large unit in the metropolitan area inhabited by her parents and soon became the backbone of the unit and the key training target - not much from an external perspective Necessity and necessity of “job-hopping”. At that time, I expressed my support without hesitation solely out of my trust in him. At the same time, I have always believed that being a good person can not be less than self-selected through life paths, including hardships and difficulties. This does not mean that I am an emotional strongman. When the son returned home at the end of the Spring Festival, bring back a number of household appliances, suddenly there is a burst of grief attack on my heart, squeezing off the joy of reunion - stacked on the ground of those very refined Lushi son, all of a sudden turned into a child A blooming sweat. I’m so easy to control the tears rolling eyes. This can be explained by literary creatures accustomed to imagination, easy to sentimental, but this “imagination ” is not based on lack of life, the son of the new hand on the big scar, that night job hit 1 am At the moment, torn by the machine leaving the mark. At that time did not attend to the medical office stitched