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Q我爱上了一个优秀的男人,遗憾的是他有女朋友。我能够感受到他对我的喜爱,他说我是他见过的最美丽聪明的女人。他的未来里没有我,我们该如何走下去?信中的第一句话如果是你“喜欢”上了一个优秀的男人,关系界限就清晰多了,后面的事情也就好办多了。在关系中,喜欢、欣赏、吸引与爱的意味是不同的,前者表示双方在关系层面有更大的弹性和清晰的边界感,而爱则表示感情上的迷恋、执着与投入。被身边的优秀异性所吸引,产生好感乃至幻想是人类情感中最正常的事
Q I fell in love with a good man, unfortunately, he has a girlfriend. I can feel his love for me, he said I was the most beautiful and clever woman he has ever seen. His future is not me, how do we go? The first sentence of the letter if you “love ” on a good man, the relationship between the boundaries is much more clear, the back of the matter would be much easier It’s In relationships, the meanings of love, appreciation, attraction and love are different. The former indicates that both parties have greater flexibility and a clear sense of boundary at the relational level. Love, on the other hand, means the infatuation, dedication and devotion of emotion. Attracted by the excellent heterosexuality around, resulting in good feelings and even fantasy is the most normal thing in human emotions