心语姐姐:我24岁,有过两次失败的感情,目前单身。我在美发店收银,收入不高,内心也明白自己没有能力,不够优秀,但对于婚姻,我不愿将就,普通的男人我不想要,而那些优秀的男人肯定又看不上我。心语姐姐,怎么才能让一个优秀的男人爱上自己呢?小茫小茫妹妹:从你的来信中,能隐隐感觉到你对现状的不甘。许多女孩子对人生不甘,通常想到要去改变的途径,就是婚姻。 Syllabary sister: I am 24 years old, there have been two feelings of failure, the current single. I cashier in the hair salon, the income is not high, the heart also understand that they have no ability, not good enough, but for marriage, I do not want to, ordinary men I do not want, but those outstanding men certainly look down on me. Xinyu sister, how can we make a good man fall in love with him? Little Sisters Little sister: From your letter, you can faintly feel unwilling to the status quo. Many girls unwilling to life, usually think of the way to change is marriage.