著名儿童教育心理学家陈鹤琴认为,孩子都有一个共同的心理特征,那就是喜欢表扬、鼓励和赞许,不喜欢被禁止、阻挠和批评。因此,陈鹤琴主张给孩子积极的鼓励。他曾说:“无论什么人,受激励而改过,是很容易的;受责骂而改过,是不太容易的,而小孩尤其喜欢听好话,而不喜欢听恶言。”赞扬可以提高孩 Famous child education psychologist Chen Heqin believes that children have a common psychological characteristics, that is, like to praise, encourage and praise, do not like to be prohibited, obstruction and criticism. Therefore, Chen Heqin advocate positive encouragement to children. He once said: “It is very easy for anyone to be motivated and reformed. Being scolded and revising it is not easy. Children especially like to listen to good things and do not like to hear bad things.” child