律师同志:我老伴3年前因病去世,去年底我认识了一位与我年龄相仿的丧偶老妇,我们双方挺聊得来,都有结为夫妻共度晚年的愿望。可当我和儿女们一说,儿女们都坚决反对,并威胁我说我若再婚,他们将不负担我的赡养费。面对这种压力,我左右为难,不知该如何办,请你帮帮我。 Lawyer: My wife died of illness three years ago. At the end of last year, I met a widowed elderly woman of my age. When both sides talked to me, I both had the desire to spend the rest of my life together. But when I said to my children, the children are resolutely opposed and threatened me with saying that if I remarry, they will not bear my alimony. Faced with this pressure, I am in a dilemma, I do not know how to do, please help me.