“明月不常满,大海真能容。”父亲吴祖光先生于二○○三年四月九日心脏病突发病逝。恰好与母亲新凤霞女史过世是同一天。对此外人很难理解,虽家父因中风不良于言,已有三年沉默,但内心却从未有过一刻的混沌。大义之忍,并非不怒,怒而忍于大义,乃真贤人。一生的坎坷在他生命即将终结之时,总要再做一次火山喷发。日子是天定的,四月九日他因思念家母,让鲜血冲破了心脏……“贺家父永生霞光万道,喜先母长伴风月同天。”这是我在家父追悼会上写的挽联。目的是为他们贺喜,祝他们团圆。“君子长思身后誉,英雄敢吃眼前 “The moon is not full and the sea is really capable.” Father Wu Zuguang died suddenly of a heart attack on April 9, 2003. It happened on the same day just after the death of the mother Xin Fengxia. It is difficult for other people to understand that although his father has been silent for three years because of stroke, his heart has never had a moment of chaos. Righteousness is not anger, anger, but tolerate righteousness, but sage. Life’s ups and downs in the end of his life, always have to do a volcanic eruption. His days were settled, and on April 9 he broke his heart because of missing his mother-in-law. “He is my father’s eternal life, and he is the same as the first mother-in-law.” This is what I wrote at my father’s memorial service Couplet. The purpose is to congratulate them and wish them reunion. "Gentleman long after thinking reputation, the hero dared to eat