曾发生过这样一件事:一位父亲当着许多亲戚朋友的面把自己的孩子狠狠辱骂了一顿,第二天这个孩子就失踪了,后来在一个河边发现了孩子——他已经跳河自杀了。这一事例告诫所有为人父母者,孩子虽小, 但他们也有着强烈的自尊心和独立的人格,也需要尊重。长期以来,我国许多家庭在教育子女的问题上,一直不注意尊重孩子,不把他们当作一个独立、完整的人看待。这种现象在日常生活中处处可见。家长带孩子出门,如果主人拿出什么吃的东西给孩子,有些父母总是抢着代孩子回答“他不吃”、“他不要”等等。由于一些家 There was such a thing happened: a father severely abused his children in the face of many relatives and friends, the next day the child disappeared, and later found a child by a river - he had Jumping River committed suicide. This example warns all parents that although children are small, they also have strong self-esteem and independent personality and need respect. For a long time, many families in our country have not paid any attention to respecting their children or treating them as an independent and complete person on the issue of educating their children. This phenomenon can be seen in daily life. Parents with children out, if the owner took out what to eat for the children, some parents are always rushing to replace children, “he does not eat,” “he does not want” and so on. Due to some home