在人际交往过程中,免不了要与人竞争,但要注意根据自己的实力来挑选竞争对手。如果你是狮子,你就要选择和你实力相当的对手,对于老鼠的挑战,你要懂得放弃比赛。有一次,一只鼬鼠向狮子挑战,要同他决一雌雄。狮子果断地拒绝了。“怎么,”鼬鼠说,“你害怕吗?”“非常害怕,”狮子说 In the process of interpersonal communication, we must inevitably compete with others, but we must pay attention to selecting competitors according to their own strengths. If you are a lion, you have to choose and your considerable strength of the opponent, the mouse challenge, you have to know how to give up the game. Once, a weasel challenged the lion and decided to go with him. Lion decisively rejected. “Why,” said the weasel, “are you scared?” “Very scared,” said the lion