教育孩子的前提是了解孩子，了解孩子的关键是加强亲子间的沟通与交流。良好的亲子交流能及时沟通亲子感情，使孩子深切感受到来自父母的关爱；也使父母了解孩子的想法、需求，发现孩子真正需要引导和帮助解决的问题。可是，在育儿过程中，不少家长没有意识到孩子交流能带来的 The premise of educating children is to understand children. The key to understanding children is to strengthen the communication and exchange between parents and children. Good parent-child communication can timely communicate parent-child feelings, so that children deeply feel the love from parents; also enable parents to understand their children’s needs and needs and find that children really need guidance and help solve problems. However, in the process of childcare, many parents do not realize that children’s exchange can bring about