畅销书《回到家庭》的作者、心理门诊医生雷·加伦迪考察了100个成功家庭后说:“父亲在培育儿女上的作用不可替代,他们有着特殊的力量。”根据专家们的意见,称职的父亲应该同时成为下面四种人: 一、善于对孩子表达爱心的人 牧师肯尼思·米德常为遇到难题的孩子提供咨询。他说,许多找过他的孩子都“希望爸爸能对我说或向我表明他真的爱我。”作家瓦尔特 After reviewing 100 successful families, the psychiatrist Ray Garrende, the author of the bestseller Back to Family, said: “The father’s role in nurturing children is irreplaceable and they have a special strength.” According to experts’ opinions , Competent father should also be the following four kinds of people at the same time: First, be good at expressing their love to the child pastor Kenneth Meade often to provide advice for children who encounter problems. He said many of the kids who had sought him “want my father to tell me or show me that he really loves me.” Author Walter