问:我的孩子一身毛病,却不让别人说。我一说,她就两手捂住耳朵,表示不听。孩子越是这样,我越想说她。结果,现在孩子几乎不跟我说话了。我感觉自己并没有做错,可为什么孩子会这样呢?潘梦雨答:很多父母教育孩子喜欢有错必纠,意思是防微杜渐,对孩子从严要求。他们认为孩子有错不及时指出,以后会出大问题。诚然,严格要求孩子是对的,但如果过于苛刻、严厉,有错必纠,势必对孩子产生消 Q: My child has a problem, but does not let others say. I said, she covered her ears with both hands, saying it did not listen. The more the child is, the more I want to say her. As a result, my kids hardly talk to me right now. I feel that I did not do wrong, but why the children will be like this? Pan Meng Yu A: Many parents teach their children to like mistakes must be corrected, which means that preventive measures, strict requirements on children. They think the children wrongly pointed out in time, will be a big problem in the future. It is true that strict requirements of children is right, but if too harsh, harsh, wrong must correct, it is bound to give birth to children