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你好!自从上初二后,我就发现同学们越来越喜欢评论别人了,而我则是经常被别人评论的对象。比如,他们会似笑非笑地对我说出诸如“最近你怎么看起来越来越胖了呢?”“你的衣服看起来那是越来越‘高大上’了”之类的话,让人心里特别不舒服,总觉得他们是在嘲笑讽刺自己。而且更要命的是,我自己也会特别在乎别人对自己的看法,我想得到别人的好评,因此总会在脑子里时不时地把他们的评价想象一番,弄得我苦恼不已。我觉得自己又没干啥坏事,为啥会被他们给那么多差评呢?编辑老师,请您告诉我,我究竟该怎么办呢?请您一定帮我出出主意,真心地谢谢您!期待您早点回复的女生潇儿
Hello! Since the first two days, I found that students are more like to comment on others, and I am the object of frequent comment by others. For example, they would laugh at me like “How do you look fat lately?” “Your clothes look like they’re getting taller, taller, and so on.” , People feel particularly uncomfortable, always think they are ridiculed irony themselves. What is even worse is that I myself will pay special attention to what others think of myself. I want to get the praise of others. Therefore, I often feel distressed in imagining their evaluation from time to time in my mind. I think I did not do anything bad, why would they be given so much bad reviews? Edit the teacher, please tell me, what should I do? Please help me out of ideas, sincerely thank you! Look forward to your early reply girl Xiao children