在一次演讲中,我让听众做了一个小活动:回想近期一件特别开心的事情,再想一件近期很不开心的事情。大家都完成后,我说,你们不必告诉我答案,如果开心的事情与他人有关,请举手。几乎所有的人举起了手。我又提了另一个问题:不开心的事情与他人有关的听众,请举手。又是几乎所有的人举起了手。 In a speech, I let the audience do a little activity: recalling a particularly happy thing recently, think about something very unhappy recently. When we are all done, I say, you do not have to tell me the answer, if happy things related to others, please raise your hand. Almost all of them raised their hands. I raised another question: unpleasant things related to others listeners, please raise their hands. Almost everyone else raised their hands.