有位母亲经常当着孩子的面对别人说:“这孩子只爱听故事,不爱讲故事;爱乱画,不爱写字;胆子大得谁都不怕……”结果,孩子上学后,不愿回答老师的提问,爱自己乱画而不愿写字,并常常不顾老师的劝阻和批评破坏纪律。老师和家长都以为他是个弱智儿童,可智力测验的结果却是“智力正常”,最后经专家鉴定,才知道孩子患了“诱导性智愚症”,其病因就来自他母亲那经常性的口头强化。在大多数父母眼中,孩子天生就该是听话的,因而对他们的好行为总是视而不见,而对他们的一些不良行为却格外注意,甚至逢人便讲,殊不 A mother often faces children in front of others, said: “This child only love to listen to the story, do not love storytelling; love to doodle, do not love to write; brave enough no one afraid ... ...” As a result, children go to school, not Would like to answer the teacher’s questions, love their own doodle rather than writing, and often disregard the teacher’s advice and criticism to undermine the discipline. Teachers and parents think he is a mentally handicapped children, but the result of intelligence tests is “mental normal”, and finally identified by experts, we know that children suffering from “induced mental retardation”, the etiology comes from his mother’s regular oral strengthen. In the eyes of most parents, children should be born obediently, so they always turn a blind eye to their good behavior and pay special attention to some of their bad behaviors.