不盲从于权威,而要理解规则的精神首先,“有道德”的孩子不是指那些出于服从权威而盲目遵从道德规范的孩子。害怕处罚的心理,并不足以使人们有足够的动机成为有道德的人。否则,美国就不需要有庞大的监狱系统了。在幼儿期出于亲情关系产生的服从是孩子自愿的,这种服从为今后道德发展提供了一个基础。但 Do not blindly follow the authority, but to understand the spirit of the rules. First of all, “moral ” children do not refer to those who obey the authority and blindly follow the ethics of children. Fear of punishment is not enough to motivate people to be ethically motivated. Otherwise, the United States does not need a huge prison system. Submissiveness arising out of kinship in early childhood is voluntary for the child and this obedience provides a basis for future moral development. but