“望子成龙”、“望女成凤”之心人皆有之。尤其在新世纪高科技发达、市场经济浪潮汹涌、人才市场竞争激烈的形势下,显得尤为突出。长期以来,人们认为子女上了大学才是人才,千方百计让孩子学习、学习、再学习,专读“圣贤书”,使得孩子心理素质差,自理能力差,社会适应能力差,反而跟不上时代发展对人才的要求。 我有一个女儿,由于家庭条件优越,从出生的第一天起就百般呵护,别人的婴儿呆在婴儿室,可是我和女儿就可以呆在单间;到了上幼儿园的时候,人家 “Succeed”, “Wang Cheng Feng” heart of everyone. Especially in the advanced development of the new century, the tide of market economy and the fierce competition in the talent market are particularly prominent. For a long time, people think that having children go to college is a talented person, doing everything possible to let children learn, study, re-learn and read “Sage Book”, making children’s poor psychological quality, poor self-care ability and social adaptability, but can not keep up with the times Development of personnel requirements. I have a daughter who has been in good condition since the very first days of her birth and whose babies have been in the infant room, but I and my daughter can stay in the single room. When I was in kindergarten, people