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一、我们之间存在哪些问题?这些问题我们努力解决过吗?方式方法足否恰当?离婚真的是解决问题最好的办法吗?作为一名婚姻家庭指导师,在咨询中,问及第一个问题,要求离婚的一方总能摆出一大堆理由,小到卫生习惯不同,大到人生观、价值观不同,林林总总数不胜数。问及第二个,也能说出一些努力的过程,但多数都以失望或无法改变来回答。问及方式方法是否恰当、离婚是不是解决问题最好的办法时,往往以不知道来回答。
First, what are the problems between us? Are we trying to solve these problems? Is the proper way and method? Is divorce the best way to solve the problem? As a marriage and family mentor, in the consultation, A problem that requires a divorce party always put a lot of reasons, ranging from different health habits, ranging from the concept of life, different values, the total number of numerous. Asked about the second one, I could also say some hard work, but most of them answered with disappointment or with no change. Asked whether the methods and methods are appropriate or not, when divorce is not the best way to solve a problem, it is often answered without knowing it.