疑病性人格的八大特点[1]第五个例子是吃饭。吃饭是绝大多数人都具有的正常功能,但对于厌食症患者就是一个复杂的问题。如果当时有另外一个人影响你,让你更增加对厌食症的恐惧,吃不下硬吃,心理逆反律就会起作用,结果可能真成厌食症了。对于内心很多冲突,一定要善于因势利导。采取强勉的方法适得其反甚至极其有害。吃饭睡觉本来是生命的需要,甚至可以说是享受。如果把它当做任务,享受就不成为享受。再当做一个要百般强迫自己完成的任务,那就成了折磨自己的负担了。[2]第六个例子就是工作。如果你对待工作采取了刚才几个例子中的错误 Eight Features of Hypocritical Personality [1] The fifth example is eating. Eating is the normal function most people have, but it is a complex issue for anorexia patients. If there was another person who affected you at the time, allowing you to add more to the fear of anorexia, eat hard and eat, psychological reverse law will work, the result may really become anorexia. For many conflicts in the heart, we must be good at making the best use of the situation. It can be counterproductive or even extremely harmful to take an aggressive approach. It is the need of life to eat and sleep, or even to enjoy. If you take it as a mission, enjoyment does not become enjoyment. Then as a mission to force yourself to do everything, it becomes a burden to torture yourself. [6] The sixth example is work. If you treat the job just took a few examples of mistakes