在性咨询门诊中,经常遇到夫妻中的一方高悬免战牌,莫名其妙地中止正常的性生活,结果使双方的关系一下子紧张起来或陷入僵持状态的情况。要想搞清其缘由,还需要费一番脑筋。因此,医生必须把双方都请来,与夫妻双方进行认真的谈话。首先分别与夫妻各方进行谈话,然后与夫妻一起共同讨论所存在的问题。为什么要先进行个别谈话,因为夫妻间出现这种矛盾可能隐伏着他们之间的感情危机、性困难或婚外恋等种种因素,有时纯属个人的隐私,所以要先从个别谈话开始。在进行的过程中,要注意尊重当事人的要求,该保 In sexual counseling clinics, one of the couples often encounters a hangover card and somehow discontinues normal sexual life, resulting in a sudden tension or stalemate in the relationship between the two parties. To find out the reason, but also need to spend some brains. Therefore, the doctor must invite both parties to have a serious conversation with both spouses. First, talk to each of the spouses separately and then discuss the problems with the spouses. Why do we have to conduct individual conversations first? Because this kind of contradiction between husband and wife may hide the crisis of their feelings, sexual difficulties or extramarital affair and other factors, and sometimes purely personal privacy, we must begin with individual conversations. During the process, pay attention to respect the requirements of the parties, the insurance